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Effective Parenting Newsletter
January 2005

Founded in 1974, the Center for the Improvement of Child Caring (CICC) has grown to be one of the nation's largest and most productive nonprofit parenting and parenting education organizations. For more information about the Center's many programs, activities, and products and services, go to our website, www.ciccparenting.org, or call (800) 325-2422.

IN THIS ISSUE...
  • Yelling, Threatening, Putting Down: What To Do Instead
  • Child Welfare League of America Selects CICC Trio of Parenting Programs as Evidence-Based National Models
  • 2004: A Year of Extraordinary Accomplishments and New Initiatives
  • Help Support CICC

  • Child Welfare League of America Selects CICC Trio of Parenting Programs as Evidence-Based National Models

    The nation's oldest and most respected child welfare organization, The Child Welfare League of America, has selected CICC's trio of parenting skill-building programs as being worthy of special recognition because of the research that confirms their effectiveness.

    The League's careful review of the many studies on CICC's Confident Parenting, Effective Black Parenting, and Los Niņos Bien Educados programs showed that the majority of parents who completed classes and seminars in these programs became (a) more positive and effective in raising their children, (b) significantly reduced the use of harsh disciplinary practices, and (c) experienced less stress and more harmony at home. As a result, their children were better adjusted at home and in the community, and they achieved better at school.

    The League's review also drew attention to the unique benefits of the latter two programs for parents of African-American and Latino-American children. It highlighted those programs' proven ability to honor and reinforce the importance of cultural pride in raising children.

    These and other evidence-based programs will be featured at a workshop at the League's national conference in Washington, D.C., March 9-11, 2005 at the Marriott Wardman Park Hotel. The conference theme is Children 2005: Crossing the Cultural Divide.

    The workshop is entitled, Evidence-Based Parent Programs: Implications for the Field, and will take place Wednesday, March 9th from 3:30 to 5:00 p.m.. The workshop will be the led by Bruce Hershfield, the Director of the League's Child, Youth and Family Development Division. Dr. Kerby T. Alvy, CICC's founder and Executive Director, will participate in the workshop and discuss why the CICC programs have been so well received in communities nationwide.


    2004: A Year of Extraordinary Accomplishments and New Initiatives

    2004 marked the 30th anniversary of CICC's efforts to put children first by helping their parents and communities to raise them as effectively and peacefully as possible. This banner year included:

    • The completion of a three-year project that brought parenting education classes, seminars, guidebooks, videos and CDs to over 20,000 parents through the early childhood education and care system in Los Angeles County. A book on this model project and its excellent results was written.

    • The completion of another three-year project on the identification, assessment and treatment of young children with special needs. This project produced pioneering community services and continuing education like The CICC Discovery Tool and Referral System, the CICC course on the Developmental Assessment of Children Birth to Five, and training conferences on Working Together to Help Young Children with Special Needs. A book on the CICC Discovery Tool was published, as were two research reports on the successful testing of the Tool.

    • The completion of Parenting Instructor Training Workshops in Washington, D.C., Los Angeles, Bakersfield, El Monte, Chicago, Baton Rouge, New Orleans, Jacksonville and Baltimore where over 100 new instructors were prepared to deliver parenting services in their communities. These counselors, educators, social workers and psychologists, along with the 6,000 other professionals who CICC has trained through prior workshops, delivered parenting classes and seminars for hundreds of thousands of parents nationwide.

    • The enhancement of the usefulness of the CICC website by the addition of several high quality parenting programs to its Parenting Skill-Building Programs section. Visitors now learn about how they can bring CICC's Confident Parenting, Effective Black Parenting and Los Niņos Bien Educados programs to their community, as well as how to also bring the full spectrum of Active Parenting, Nurturing, and Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (STEP) programs to their neighborhoods.

    • The usefulness of the CICC website was also enriched by adding and making available more parenting and child development books, videos and CDs on its online bookstore (see Table of Contents).

    • The National Partnership Campaign to Find and Help Young Children with Special Needs was launched late in 2004. Campaign presentations were made by CICC's founder and executive director, Dr. Alvy, at meetings the Children's Defense Fund and the National Education Association in Washington, D.C., and at conferences of the National Association for the Education of Young Children and the Florida Coalition for Children. Individuals and groups nationwide began signing up to become Campaign Partners in this critically important new undertaking, including the four new Encourager Partners pictured below with Dr. Alvy.

    • New members joined the CICC volunteer Board of Directors, including Professor Ronald Fischbach of the Health Sciences Department of California State University at Northridge, and attorney and child advocate, Diedre Wachbrit.

    • The free online Effective Parenting Newsletter became available toward the end of 2004, and it already has over 10,000 readers!


    Help Support CICC

    Please help further CICC's mission of Strengthening the American Family through parent education and training. A wide range of funding sources is used to keep the Center operating and expanding.

    The most important funds that CICC receives are from the thousands of individuals who have made tax- deductible contributions. These important funds are used by CICC to provide free parenting services for needy families, to support the organization's advocacy efforts, and to support the Center during emergencies.


    Yelling, Threatening, Putting Down: What To Do Instead

    This high quality and excellently produced 35 minute video parenting education program provides numerous examples of how to successfully deal with child rearing challenges that lead many parents to verbally abuse their children.

    The four situations that are dramatically presented are:

    1. An attention-seeking toddler runs back and forth in front of a television screen as a tired father attempts to get away from it all by watching a basketball game on t.v.
    2. An angry preschooler starts throwing her blocks all over the place when the tower she is building collapses.
    3. A seven year old's whining demands for a candy bar makes a trip to the market an annoying and corrosive journey.
    4. A brother and sister just can't solve their own problems and explode into fighting in front of a parent who is working at home.

    In Yelling, Threatening and Putting Down: What To Do Instead, the parenting strategies and skills that are demonstrated to productively and nonabusively deal with these challenges are those that are taught in many of America's finest parenting skill-building programs, including:

  • The Thinking Parent's Approach to Child Disobediences
  • The Family Rules are Like a Coin Strategy for Selecting What to Do
  • Effective Praising
  • Empathy
  • Parental Modeling
  • Parental Coaching
  • Communicating Expectations in Advance
  • Practicing or Role Playing Desired Behaviors
  • Use of Material Rewards
  • Family Meetings
  • Mild Social Disapproval
  • Ignoring
  • Logical Consequences
  • Redirection of Attention

    Research on parental reactions to this video program show that everyone learns something new and that parents become more positive in relating to their children. The research was conducted as part of a CICC project on Bringing Parenting Education Into the Early Childhood Care and Education System.

    To obtain the Yelling, Threatening, Putting Down: What To Do Instead video program, click here.

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    List of Agencies State-by-State Whose Staffs Already Trained Through CICC Workshops

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