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Effective Parenting Newsletter
December 2004

Founded in 1974, the Center for the Improvement of Child Caring (CICC) has grown to be one of the nation's largest and most productive nonprofit parenting and parenting education organizations. For more information about the Center's many programs, activities, and products and services, go to our website, http://www.ciccparenting.org, or call (800) 325-2422.

IN THIS ISSUE...
  • Shaking, Hitting, Spanking: What To Do Instead
  • Partners Sign Up for National Campaign to Find and Help Young Children with Special Needs
  • Effective Parenting is Prevention Workshop, January 22, 2005
  • CICC Receives Grant from Verizon to Support School Readiness Parenting Seminars
  • Help Support CICC

  • Partners Sign Up for National Campaign to Find and Help Young Children with Special Needs

    CICC's recently launched National Partnership Campaign to Find and Help Young Children with Special Needs has immediately attracted individuals and organizations to participate.

    The Campaign addresses a deplorable and unacceptable situation - the fact that as many as 75% of the three million children under five with special learning, emotional, social, intellectual and physical problems are NOT being identified and treated by professionals before entering school. As a result, these vulnerable children usually do poorly in school, suffer insults and hardships, including being more likely to be abused by their parents. In turn, they often become anti-social and require remedial and legal services costing taxpayers billions of dollars.

    The Campaign is designed to help turn this situation around at the grassroots level. It mobilizes individual and organization partners to educate, motivate, sponsor and encourage parents of young children to be alert to special needs. If special needs are detected, immediate action must be taken. Partners orient parents to regularly use the online CICC Discovery Tool and Referral System for these purposes.

    Presentations about the Campaign by CICC's Founder and Executive Director, Dr. Kerby T. Alvy, have recently been conducted at meetings at the Children's Defense Fund and the National Education Association in Washington, D.C., at the annual conference of the Florida Coalition for Children in Orlando, and at the annual conference of the National Association for the Education of Young Children in Anaheim, California.

    The responses have been very positive. Several individuals and organizations immediately signed up to become Encourager Partners in the Campaign, and obtained the Encourager Partner Kit to guide their grassroots activities (see picture of Dr. Alvy with Michael and Sheryl Neelan of ChildCareWorld.com, new Encourager Partners). Many other organizations who learned about the Campaign at these meetings and conferences are in the process of sharing the Campaign with their Boards and staff with the possibility of signing as Encourager or Co- Sponsoring Partners.

    Campaign updates will be featured in subsequent Effective Parenting newsletters. To arrange for Dr. Alvy to speak to your group or organization, write to ciccparenting@sbcglobal.net or call CICC's toll-free at 1(800) 325-2422.

    Learn About Partnerships

    Use the CICC Discovery Tool


    Effective Parenting is Prevention Workshop, January 22, 2005

    Alliant International University (AIU), which was founded in 2001 through the combination of United States International University, the California School of Professional Psychology and Alliant University, and which has six California locations and several locations abroad, is presenting in partnership with CICC, a full-day workshop entitled Effective Parenting is Prevention.

    The workshop is based on the fact that a variety of social and health problems, like child abuse and childhood emotional, behavioral and learning problems, can be prevented or reduced by parents rearing children in skillful, sensitive and non-violent ways.

    The workshop builds on what is scientifically known about effective parenting and delves into controversial practices such as corporal punishment. Then it presents several model parenting skill-building programs that are being used nationwide to teach parents non-violent and effective practices, including CICC's trio of programs, Confident Parenting, Effective Black Parenting and Los Niqos Bien Educados.

    The workshop will also focus on how to engage parents in identifying special needs early in life and how to connect them to appropriate interventions. The National Partnership Campaign to Find and Help Young Children with Special Needs and the use of The CICC Discovery Tool and Referral System will be covered.

    The workshop will be led by Dr. Kerby T. Alvy, and much of what is addressed will be from his various books and guides, including Parent Training Today: A Social Necessity, Black Parenting: Strategies for Training, The Power of Positive Parenting, and The CICC Discovery Tool.

    The workshop will be held Saturday, January 22, 2005, 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., on the campus of the California School of Professional Psychology, 1000 S. Fremont Avenue, Alhambra, CA 91803.
    Fee: $145. CE Credit: 7 hours

    To register for this workshop, or for further information, please contact the AIU Continuing Education Office at (800) 457-1273, or visit www.alliant.edu/ce


    CICC Receives Grant from Verizon to Support School Readiness Parenting Seminars

    The Verizon Foundation has awarded CICC a $25,000 grant to continue to conduct School Success from the Start seminars for parents of pre-kindergarten children in Los Angeles County.

    The School Success seminars provide parents with a wide range of practical activities that they can do at home to help their children develop the attitudes and skills to be successful in kindergarten - and beyond! A great deal of what is taught in these popular parenting training events is based on the highly regarded Kindergarten Survival Handbook by Dr. Allana Elovson.

    Verizon Foundation support is part of its exemplary Verizon Reads Initiative which is dedicated to the fight for a more literate America and which funds community-based programming to promote reading and literacy. This exemplary corporate effort includes the Verizon Literacy Campus, an online training center that provides assistance to a wide range of groups and individuals working in the literacy field.

    To work with CICC in bringing School Success from the Start Seminars to your community, call CICC's Executive Director, Dr. Alvy at (800) 325-2422 or email him at kalvy@aol.com.

    Click here for a report on the effectiveness of these seminars.


    Help Support CICC

    Please help further CICC's mission of Strengthening the American Family through parent education and training. A wide range of funding sources is used to keep the Center operating and expanding.

    The most important funds that CICC receives are from the thousands of individuals who have made tax- deductible contributions. These important funds are used by CICC to provide free parenting services for needy families, to support the organization's advocacy efforts, and to support the Center during emergencies.


    Shaking, Hitting, Spanking: What To Do Instead

    Parental alternatives to outbursts of physical aggression directed toward children is the theme of this powerful and award-winning video-based parenting program. Taking a broad, multi-cultural approach, this program deals with situations which can lead to abusive responses that stress parents out such as :

    • Babies crying late at night
    • Toddlers making kitchen messes
    • Grade school children disobeying
    • Teens refusing to clean their rooms

    Each situation is presented in realistic and powerful scenes right up to the moment when a parent is about to shake, hit or spank a child. The tape is then stopped and discussion of posssible alternatives occurs. The tape is then resumed and several excellent alternatives are shown, all demonstrating non-violent ways of dealing with each challenge, as well as guidance on how to prevent future similar problems.

    The Shaking, Hitting, Spanking: What To Do Instead program can be used by individual families, loaned to families, or presented as a stand-alone, one-session parenting class. Another format would be to show and discuss one of the four segments at regular parent meetings.

    Click here for price and order information on Shaking, Hitting, Spanking: What To Do Instead.

    A Spanish version is also available: Golpes Y Gritos...Csmo Evitarlos.

    Other videos that address and provide perspectives and alternatives to corporal punishment:

  • Red, White and Bruises: Why Parents Spank Their Children
  • I'm Only Doing This For Your Own Good - Parents of Babies, Toddlers and Preschoolers
  • It Hurts Me More Than It Hurts You - Parents of School-Age Children
  • My Way or the Highway - Parents of Teenagers
  • Spare the Rod, Spoil the Child - Interpretation of "Rod" as Guidance, Not Violence

  • Quick Links...

    Schedule of Parenting Instructor Training Workshops

    List of Agencies State-by-State Whose Staffs Already Trained Through CICC Workshops

    Link CICC to Your Website

    CICC Home Page



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